You promised to love each other for better or worse.  Unfortunately, the ‘worse’ happened and now you find your marriage in dire straits. A broken marriage, or one on the verge of breaking, is difficult to mend. Men who have experienced this situation know exactly how painful and difficult it can be.  It is devastating to be left alone – left to face the possibility of life without the one person they love the most. But, don’t lose heart.  Winning your wife back might require a lot of effort, but it is entirely possible.

So, what can you do? Try to win her heart back.  Focus upon the things you did that helped your wife fall in love with you in the first place.  Be the person she fell in love with. Accentuate the qualities that you used to win her heart back in the days when you two were still not married.  Winning her back now might take a lot of time and effort and patience, but you can do it.  You must be devoted to your goal, but be smart about it.  Stalking her every movement or calling her every two minutes will certainly NOT be helpful, and in fact counter-productive.

What does works is to tell her how great she looks.  Remind her of how beautiful you think she is, of how beautiful you’ve always thought she was.  It takes a lot of courage to do this, but be genuine and honest and your sincerity will shine through to her.  Swallow your pride, you will not need it anyway. You need to focus on her and rebuilding love and trust and get your wife back!

Recognize your own short comings and mistakes and do your best to learn from them.  Change in life is inevitable, but seek always to change for the better.  Even talk about these things with her, just don’t beg for forgiveness. No woman wants to see her husband begging and crying for help, especially about making decisions. Prove to her that you are serious in your intentions to reconcile.  Amaze her with your patience and persistence. If she declines any of your offers, don’t make a big deal about it.  It is her right to do so.  She still obviously needs time to think things over.

Try to understand your wife’s motives and feelings and perspective.  Think of the things that made her mad and caused conflict between you both.  Think about the things or circumstance that led to her departure. Learn from this and think of ways to not only avoid these issues in the future but make them better.

It takes a lot of willpower and a whole new sense of commitment to successfully get your wife back.  Practice positive approaches and devote your time to improving yourself and relationship skills and winning her back rather sulking or feeling bitter. Be the best you that you can be.  Be the best friend, lover and husband you can be, and once you have her back, never let her go again.

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